Wellbeing in Ministry

Healthy ministry begins with caring for ourselves and our relationships. This page offers practical information, resources, and signposts to help nurture your wellbeing.
Walking Together in Ministry
No matter our role, we all need support at various times, and those needs change throughout our ministry. The Church in Wales is committed to walking alongside everyone in ordained and lay ministry, and their families, so that together we can remain faithful, healthy, and fruitful.
What Shapes Wellbeing?
Wellbeing is more than the absence of stress. It’s the balance of physical, emotional, and spiritual health, supported by strong personal and professional relationships, and rooted in a sense of vocation. When these elements work together, they create the foundation for a ministry that is both sustainable and life-giving.
The Realities of Ministry
Ministry is deeply rewarding, yet it can bring hidden challenges, often including loneliness, isolation, and heavy workloads. Clergy and lay ministers often enjoy a valuable sense of autonomy, but boundaries between work and home often blur and the demands of ministry can easily spill into every corner of life. Making time for self-care and maintaining a healthy work–life balance is therefore essential.
Support That Helps You Flourish
While caring for your own wellbeing is vital, support from your diocese and the province matters too. Church structures are designed to help clergy and lay ministers thrive. A good first step is to identify your diocesan contact who can guide you to further support. If you’re unsure where to start, reach out to your archdeacon or diocesan secretary, and they will provide information and connect you with the right person.
Practical Help
Emotional, spiritual, and financial support is available through networks and trusted charities. Below, you’ll find resources to help sustain mind, body, and spirit throughout your ministry:
If you or someone else is in danger or at immediate risk of harm, please contact one of the following services without delay:
- Emergency Services (Police, Ambulance, Fire): Call 999
- NHS Mental Health Services (including Mental Health Access Hubs): Call 111 and select the Mental Health option (available 24/7)
- Need someone to talk to right now? Call the Samaritans for free on 116 123. Available day or night and completely confidential.
Support is available in your diocese to nurture your wellbeing, strengthen your calling, and help you flourish in your ministry.
It can feel difficult to admit when things are hard, but senior colleagues, such as ministry/mission area leaders, area deans, archdeacons, and bishops, understand the pressures of ministry. They bring experience, wisdom, and practical help, and can guide you to resources that make a real difference.
Another valuable resource is spiritual direction. A spiritual director is a trusted Christian who listens deeply and offers prayerful guidance in faith, discipleship, and ministry. Your diocese can help you find someone suitable.
Many clergy also benefit from cell groups, meeting in person or online. These groups provide a safe space for prayer, friendship, and sharing the joys and challenges of ministry. If you’d like to join or start a cell group, contact your diocesan director of ministry or a senior colleague.
Healthy relationships are vital to personal and ministerial wellbeing, yet those in ministry and their families can face unique relational challenges. This section offers trusted resources for support, reconciliation, and legal guidance, whether you're navigating conflict, seeking mediation, or facing serious issues such as domestic abuse. These organisations provide confidential, compassionate help tailored to the needs of clergy, spouses, and partners.
- BBMinistries (Bridge Builders) equips Christians to live as models of reconciliation in challenging situations.
- Broken Rites offers support to clergy spouses and partners facing difficulties in their relationships or circumstances.
- LawWorks is a a charity delivering free legal advice for those ineligible for legal aid and unable to afford legal fees.
- Community Legal Advice provides comprehensive information on legal rights and options.
- Women’s Aid delivers safe, confidential services for women and children who have experienced domestic abuse at any stage of life.
- Refuge is provider of specialist support for women and children affected by domestic abuse and other forms of gender-based violence.
- ManKind initiative assists men experiencing domestic violence or abuse from a current or former partner, including same-sex relationships.
Caring for others can be deeply rewarding, but it can also be demanding. To continue caring effectively, it is essential to ensure that your own support systems are in place and functioning well. At times, internal or external pressures may mean we need additional help through counselling or therapy. Every case is handled with the utmost sensitivity and confidentiality.
Cynnal (the Churches Counselling Service in Wales) offers a completely confidential counselling service for all ministers of religion and their families. Their website is www.cynnal.uk or you can phone them on 0779 646 4045.
There are also external counselling services available, which you can access directly or through your diocese or your Church in Wales HR regional officer. Please note that most external counselling services require payment. Financial assistance may be available from your diocese or through funding bodies listed in the Financial Support section below. In some cases, you may be asked to make a contribution depending on circumstances.
For further guidance, please contact your bishop, archdeacon, or diocesan director of ministry. The following resources may also be helpful in attending to your wellbeing.
- St Luke’s Healthcare for the Clergy works in partnership with the Church in Wales and individual dioceses to strengthen clergy wellbeing through resilience training and reflective practice groups.
- Mindful Employer offers guidance and signposting to help individuals maintain mental wellbeing and access extra support when needed.
- Mind provides trusted information and resources on mental health, including where to find help.
- Mind and Soul Foundation is a team of a psychologist, priest, and psychiatrist offering integrated resources that affirm both faith and emotional health.
- Soultime App is a Christian meditation app with a free trial and subscription options.
- The Association of Christian Counsellors (ACC) combines pastoral care with professional counselling and psychotherapy rooted in Christian ethos.
- Sleepstation is a doctor-designed online programme to help clergy and spouses overcome insomnia and improve sleep quality, fully funded by Clergy Support Trust.
In 2025, the Church in Wales launched the Advancing Clergy Reflection Programme in partnership with St Luke’s for Clergy Wellbeing. Funded by the Henry Smith Charity and independently evaluated by York St John University and Bournemouth University, this initiative marks a significant step in supporting clergy wellbeing.
The programme offers monthly one-to-one pastoral supervision for around 40 clergy across Wales, providing a safe and confidential space to reflect on ministry and its personal impact. Led by trained Church in Wales pastoral supervisors, qualified through Wesley House, Cambridge, these sessions encourage healthy work habits and promote sustainable wellbeing.
Though modest in scale, this initiative is a meaningful gift to those who serve so faithfully. It aims to nurture a wider culture of care, reflection, and support within the Church in Wales, one that we hope will have a lasting and transformative impact on ministry life.
Navigating financial challenges in ministry can be difficult, but a range of organisations offer support tailored to clergy, ordinands, licensed lay ministers and their families. Whether you're facing hardship, exploring a vocation, or planning for retirement, the following resources provide grants, advice, and practical assistance.
- Clergy Support Trust offers financial grants to Anglican clergy households experiencing poverty, hardship, or illness. Support is available to serving and retired clergy, their families, divorced or separated spouses, and surviving partners. Church in Wales ordinands training for ministry are also eligible.
- Churches' Mutual Credit Union (CMCU) is a savings and loans co-operative for those holding recognised roles (paid or voluntary) within the Church in Wales and other denominations. Accounts are also available to household members and retired ministers.
- The Henry Smith Charity has a Christian Projects grant programme which provides grants to UK-based projects that explicitly promote the Christian faith. Eligible churches include the Church in Wales, Church of England, and other Anglican bodies.
- The Cleaver Ordination Candidates Fund supports Anglican ordinands committed to a traditional Catholic understanding of priesthood. Grants are available for those exploring vocation, undertaking parish placements, or pursuing theological study.
- Elizabeth Finn Trust offers financial support to individuals in hardship with savings under £16,000. Assistance may include help with living costs or nursing home fees. Church in Wales clergy are eligible.
- The Foundation of Edward Storey provides grants and housing support to those professionally connected to the Church in Wales, Church of England, or Scottish Episcopal Church. Includes clergy widows, separated spouses, and others in need.
- Turn2us is a national charity helping people access welfare benefits, grants, and financial support. Offers a searchable database and guidance on available help.
- Money Advice Service is a government-backed website offering free, impartial advice on money matters, including budgeting, debt, and financial planning during divorce or separation.
- State Pension Entitlement is an online tool to calculate your UK state pension entitlement and forecast retirement income.
- Adviceguide (Citizens Advice) provides clear, accessible information on legal rights, financial issues, housing, employment, and more.
- Powis Exhibition Fund provides grants for Welsh-speaking ordinands of the Church in Wales to support their study of theology. Forms are available from the Representative Body of the Church in Wales.
- The Isla Johnston Trust provides support for clergy, licensed lay readers, and ordinands in the Church in Wales for study, rest, recuperation, and church-related gatherings. Forms are available from the Representative Body of the Church in Wales.
- The James Pantyfedwen Foundation offers grants to support church building projects, Christian training, postgraduate study, and cultural initiatives that benefit the people of Wales.
- The G.I. Evans Memorial Trust is held for the provision of Welsh Language courses for any cleric or ordinand in the Church in Wales. Forms are available from the Representative Body of the Church in Wales.
A sense of vocation lies at the heart of ordained ministry, yet sustaining that calling requires ongoing spiritual, professional, and pastoral support. This section offers resources to help clergy deepen their vocational journey, access supervision and contemplative practice, and receive professional representation when needed.
- Trade Union / Professional Association Representation: Clergy are entitled to join a trade union or professional association. Membership provides access to representation in individual matters, as long as the representative has no conflict of interest or involvement in the case.
- APSE (Association for Pastoral Supervision and Education) promotes high standards in pastoral supervision and offers training and accreditation for supervisors.
- School of Meditation is part of the World Community for Christian Meditation. This school supports contemplative practice rooted in Christian tradition, with groups meeting globally.
- WCCM (World Community for Christian Meditation) is a global spiritual community united in the practice of Christian meditation, offering retreats, resources, and local groups.
A healthy rhythm of life in ministry includes work, rest, prayer, exercise, and nourishment. Yet rest, especially spiritual rest, is often neglected when pressures mount. Taking time away for retreat offers space to pause, pray, sleep, and be renewed in God’s presence. We hope that your time in retreat will be a source of refreshment and inspiration, fuelling your discipleship and ministry.
- The Retreat Association offers guidance on making a retreat, finding a spiritual director, and links to over 200 retreat centres across the UK and beyond.
- Llangasty Retreat House is a Christian centre near Brecon for retreats, conferences, and spiritual development.
- Noddfa, Penmaenmawr is a peaceful Christian retreat centre on the North Wales coast, offering space for rest, prayer, and spiritual renewal in the foothills of Snowdonia.
- Loreto Centre, Llandudno is a peaceful retreat space open to people of all faiths and none, offering rest and prayer.
- Ffald y Brenin, Preseli Hills is a house of prayer and Christian retreat centre set in the stunning landscape of West Wales.
- Pentrenant Hall, Montgomery, Powys is a multi-functional residential centre for groups, families, and conferences in a beautiful countryside setting.
- St Beuno’s Spirituality Centre offers individually guided retreats and spiritual direction in the Ignatian tradition.
- Hebron Hall Christian Centre is an independent Christian charity offering retreat and conference facilities near Dinas Powys.
- Bonnevaux (Poitiers, France) is the international retreat centre of the World Community for Christian Meditation, offering contemplative retreats and spiritual formation.
- Gladstone Library is a residential library in Hawarden, with an onsite restaurant and a comfortable guest lounge.
- Llanerchwen is a secluded retreat centre in the Brecon Beacons, offering space for solitude, prayer, and individually guided retreats.
- Ty Mawr is an Anglican community of contemplative nuns near Monmouth, offering a life of prayer and hospitality.
- St Non's (Ty Dewi) is a retreat centre on the Pembrokeshire Coast near St Davids, offering a peaceful space for prayer, pilgrimage, and contemplation.
- Coleg Trefecca is a historic Christian retreat and conference centre in the Brecon Beacons, offering tranquil surroundings for spiritual renewal, training, and hospitality.
St Padarn’s offers a range of courses designed to support the health and wellbeing of clergy within the Church in Wales. These programmes place a strong emphasis on resilience, self-care, and holistic flourishing in ministry. Among the most valuable options are:
Retirement Planning
Whilst many people look forward to their retirement and very much enjoy preparing for the potential freedom and new opportunities it offers, for others it can be an uncertain and anxious time. For clergy, especially those who have been in ministry for many years, retirement may bring challenges and worries about finance and/or housing, whilst for others retirement threatens to bring a loss of identity. Although some will be very happy to retire and hang up their clerical collars, others will struggle to think of a life without active ministry, and will be keen to offer their help and assistance to clerical colleagues. Certainly, the Church in Wales highly values and depends upon the commitment of active, retired clergy.
If you're over the age of 58 and thinking about the latter stages of your ministry and eventual retirement, St Padarn’s Institute offers a highly valued residential course designed to help you prepare spiritually, practically, and emotionally for retirement, and the challenges and opportunities it offers. For further information, please visit Pre-Retirement Course - St Padarn's Institute.
MER (Ministry with Enhanced Responsibilities) Programme
The MER Programme is an 18-month programme offering targeted training and support to stipendiary, along with access to a wide range of resources, and a personal coach.
The MER aims to help enable ministers in the Church in Wales to grow in confidence and competence in their ministry and to deepen their spirituality and sense of purpose and calling as a child of God. Through a combination of residential events, membership of a small group for prayer and reflection, monthly online training opportunities, and access to a personal coach, clerics will be encouraged to reflect on their calling, hone their ministerial skills, and to develop both personally and spiritually as part of a supportive and encouraging community.
The MER programme is organised by St Padarn's Institute, and for further information please visit Ministry with Enhanced Responsibilities Programme (MER) - St Padarn's Institute.
Mid Ministry course
Ministry can feel relentless at times, and it can be hard to find the time and space to stop and reflect on our vocation, and to think and pray about our journey which has brought us to this stage, and what God might yet have in store for us in the future. St Padarn's Institute have developed a Mid Ministry Course where those who have been in ministry for at least 15 years where participants are can take time to reflect, share, and pray, in a safe and supportive environment along the theme of 'What Was, What Is, and What Is To Come'.
For further information, please visit Surviving and Thriving in Mid Ministry - St Padarn's Institute.
We deeply value the contribution of our retired clergy and the widows and widowers of those who have served. Retirement marks a significant life transition, and we are committed to offering support, encouragement, and opportunities for continued connection within the diocesan community. Whether you're approaching retirement or have recently retired, we want to ensure you feel spiritually, pastorally, and practically supported.
Ministry/mission area clergy are usually the first point of contact for pastoral support, including home and hospital visits. We encourage retired clergy and clergy widows/widowers to reach out to their local parish priest, especially as GDPR restrictions mean they may not always be aware when someone has moved into the area.
Each diocese also appoints a chaplain for retired clergy, and most dioceses organise regular social and worship events. For more information, please contact your diocesan director of ministry.
For guidance on pensions and housing support in retirement, please contact the Church in Wales Finance Department.
If you're nearing retirement, St Padarn’s Institute offers a residential course designed to help you prepare spiritually, practically, and emotionally for this important life change. For more information, please contact St Padarn’s.